New Research Reveals :
Why Men Instinctively Reject Particular Women
(and the surprising reason they automatically choose others)
Over the years, Tanya was constantly told she was "incredible ", "beautiful inside and out ", "gorgeous ", and "perfect sweetheart material" by the men she'd dated ...
But all those kind and reassuring words actually made her feel bad .
You see the fact is :.
Although they TOLD HER she was a great catch , they all eventually would break it off.
To Tanya, this indicated that they were all either not being honest with her , or there was something else wrong with her : something so repulsive they couldn't imagine themselves building a relationship with her.
"It made me really feel damaged " she told us . "Why am I never ever enough for the guys that seem perfect for me ?".
"I just want somebody to want me".
So, what makes a guy want to build a future with a specific woman while overlooking others? It's a fundamental question that has plagued women for all of time .
Fortunately, science might finally have an answer to this question .
According to new research published in the academic journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men aren't attracted to women based on "logical reasons".
As dating and relationship expert Clayton Max told us, "It's not about checking all the boxes on a man's checklist of what makes his 'ideal woman '. A woman can not persuade a man to want to be with her".
In fact , Max states , when a woman attempts to persuade a man , pressure him , or show him how incredible she is, it's most likely to backfire, because these behaviors signal the exact opposite of what makes men absolutely sure a certain woman is the one for him.
"The reality is" according to Max, "men select women based on whether they do one specific thing :.
They go with partners who make them feel the hypnotic emotion of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have actually found that infatuation originates from a subconscious drive deep within the mind ...
Either it's switched on or it's switched off .
When a man's infatuation response is ON , it doesn't matter if she has any of the criteria he's been searching for .
They could be entirely 'incompatible' theoretically , however he'll make time for her. He'll move cities to be with her . .
This is all because the Infatuation Instinct literally forces him to ignore everything else except for wanting to be with her .
So just how does a woman trigger a man's Infatuation Response ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire he's ready to do what ever it takes to convince her just how much he wants her?
Check out the Extensive Video to found out now .
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